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March 19, 2011

MY NAME IS RAMESH






















Hi
My Name is Ramesh, I am a Sr Executive in a Technology company. I am
well respected and well to do. My Wife for 18 years passed away after
giving birth to a baby girl.. Baby is 13 Months old now and in India. I
also have son who is in 9th grade and will be off to college in couple
of years.

I am a highly educated, kind, Generous and Good human being. I am very
interested in talking to you.

Ramesh

RE: MY NAME IS RAMESH

hi ramesh.  it's pleasant to meet you.  i'm really glad that you're a sr executive in your job, well respected and well to do because it seems as if you may have a difficult life.

i have to admit, your profile was a little difficult for me to grasp.  to start you have no picture.  what am i supposed to do with that?  no picture.  that's totally lame.  beyond your lack of picture, all i could pick up is that you're 46, 5"7", from india, a hindi, live in silicon valley (no city specified) and a you're a widower.  you don't give your hair color, eye color, exercise habits, interests, body type, sign, or pets you have or like.  and you're looking for a significantly younger girl (35 - 39), who doesn't have or want kids, never smokes and never drinks.  oh, and she can't be black.

now if i am to understand this correctly, your wife died during childbirth.  and your baby is 13 months old.  your wife of 18 years?  and you are already looking for a replacement?

and then there's the odd fact that your baby lives in india and you live in silicon valley.  let's just say we were going to meet, i live in los angeles.  i'm not sure how this would work.  did you envision me commuting to silicon valley to meet and date you, and then commuting to india to be a stepmother to your baby?  however you were thinking it might work, you should have read my profile more closely.  i don't date outside of a 5 mile radius of west hollywood.

while you have a 13 month old baby, you also have a 9th grader who you say will be off to college soon.  i don't consider 4 years soon.  and i find it odd that you waited 12 years before having your second child.  i don't know, it just has a sort of a strange ring to it.

ramesh, i think that getting involved with you would be an emotional disaster.

you really think that a 35 year old woman (ie, me) is going to forgo having her own children (ie, mine) in order to split time between silicon valley and india (ie, when i don't commute) in order to take care of your infant and 14 year old (ie, the strangest age range) when you're only 14 months widowed (ie, too short a time) from a woman you were married to for 18 years (ie, probably still emotionally involved)?

i don't think you need to be on this site, i think you need to be on therapy.com.

but good luck.  i know some romanian women who might be interested.